They know best why they have not read enough this trimester or why they save all their weekly goals for Thursday night homework, or how they might get higher scores on their computation tests. In the time provided at the conference, in a safe atmosphere (some families bring snacks, and other conferences are going on at the same time so no one is alone in this) students have covered all the subject areas, have discussed their study/work habits (or lack there of) and have acknowledged the many other important things that occupy their time (band, chorus, sports, lessons, siblings, hobbies, etc). Looking critically but openly at their work, they agree some areas need specific attention. Together with their parents, we create goals for the next trimester. They might decide to pick a different spot to read at home or at school, or to use their organizer to plan out their after school schedule so they can manage homework every night, or that they should practice computation skills twice a week. My job is to assist students and their families in crafting the goals, so they are not so lofty they are unachievable (i.e. “Get along better with your brother”), and not so vague they are not measurable at the next conference (i.e. “Read more”).
There is no denying that student-led portfolio conferences are difficult. They take a tremendous amount of time to prepare for, and they are contingent upon the parent being a willing member of a student’s progress. And they are intimate; when I sit down at the conference with a student and their parent, it is face to face, open communication…we discuss the great stuff, and the difficult stuff. There is very little room for denial. Conversations can be tense, and sometimes there are tears (parents, students or mine!) but they are honest, and the deal is at the end of the conference, we get to start the next trimester fresh, with new directions and new strategies towards success. Students take ownership for their learning, and after the conference, we all feel a tremendous amount of pride and an enormous sense of accomplishment.
For me, I am still tired and the work continues to accumulate, but I am fired up for the next trimester and all it has to bring. Oh,but right, it’s not about me!